One mental mistake that’ll delay epic results (even when you’re working your booty off)
A few weeks ago, I got to have a wonderful conversation with a referral who wanted to cut sales calls from his coaching business.
“I love the idea of it, but I don’t think it’s possible. If it’s as easy as you say it is, then why aren’t more people successfully doing it?”
What a juicy time for us to talk about energetic setpoints (& one of the biggest mental mistakes that high-performers, super-feelers, & fast-moves make when they’re doing seemingly impossible things in their life/business).
The reason that so many people get stuck between execution and results isn’t because they’re working for something that is impossible or that they don’t deserve to have the things that they say they want.
It's because behind their desire and all the hard work they’re putting in to bring it to life…they secretly don’t expect it to work. Or worse, the need it to work but subconsciously don’t want it to.
So they fly into action, execute these big strategy shifts (that add a good chunk of work onto what they're already doing), test their burnout capacity, & begin to reap seeds that they sowed…
I don’t know about you, but that’s not my version of a delicious business.
Here’s a Coaching Snack:
Where is there incongruence between what you think is possible and what you’re working your butt off for? If so, here’s how you can coach yourself through that:
Acknowledge that there’s a gap - finding the gap in the hardest part.
Decide whether you have a mindset problem or a strategy problem - Mindset problems feel charged and come with a painful story or emotion. Strategy problems feel neutral and easy to shift. If your gap is because of how you’re trying to accomplish something, you can tweak it by asking yourself, “What would make this easier for me?”. If your gap is because you your self-concept is tied to the result, then you have some mindset work to do.
Let go of your timeline - and that’s where I come in. When you can get into alignment, create strategies specially curated to your unique way of being successful, and fall in love with the space between…watch out. You’ll have to walk town with a CAUTION! HOT! sign on your forehead because you’ll be on fire. My coaching application is available for those who think it would be delicious to do this level of work together - I’ll pop the link right here.
Can you see where this gap is currently taking over your business? Where do you need support?
