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You already have a track record of success, in fact, you’ve achieved more than you (& others) ever even thought was possible. But you’re nowhere near done stretching & you’re starting to get nervous about what your next stretch looks like
You’re a 50/50 kind of crazy - 50% of you is obsessed with the work, the grit, the tenacity of entrepreneurship (no one works harder than you, that’s how you’ve always stood out) but the other 50% of you is spiritual af and can’t quite figure out how to make them work together in this for exponential results without dropping the ball or losing your mind
You wonder if it’s worth the risk to go from good to great. You know that a lot of what you’re doing right now will break soon if you don’t listen to the tinge of dissatisfaction that tells you there’s a better way, something more…
You’re wondering: If I take a leap & trust this feeling… will it ever be this good again? Let me tell you: No, it won’t be that good again. It’ll be so much better than you could ever imagine.
You’re feeling the creative tension of your next art piece unfold… and instead of letting the world tell you how big & impossible it is, you’re taunting the Universe to match you or beat you
When you tell people about your next, foggy leap they project their fears about its success on you because they know that they could never, ever in a million years do what you can do
You’re the 1% kind of crazy who has always moved to the beat of your own drum & despite being in an industry where it seems that everyone wants big things… you’ve felt alone in your crazy. This next level is so big that it scares the shit out of everyone who isn’t you because they know that they could never do what you’re doing.
In this era of your life, you’re in pursuit of an A-Team of batshit crazy leaders with all different skillsets, at the top of their game, who can meet you where you’re at, challenge where you’re going, & bring out the remarkable magic inside of you.
Extra is your Cathartic Creative Club.
You’re equal parts “satisfied” and “never done”. And sometimes it scares the shit out of you & those who want the best for you. You don’t scare me. I see you.
What is EXTRA:
Extra is a 6 month creative MASTERMIND for winners on the edge of their next big creation. For the batshit crazy leaders dabbling in the land of “more” & “better” while laughing harder, loving deeper, making more, defying gravity & having more fun than they’ve ever had doing hard shit before.
What do we do?
1) Entrepreneurial kintsugi. Kintsugi is the Japanese art of repairing broken objects with gold. Obviously, your business isn’t broken. But there some tinges of dissatisfaction that are telling you that the good things are going to break soon if you don’t listen. There might be stress fractures on your worth, hairline cracks in your business design, gaping holes in your energetic efficiency, or foggy (at best) visions for what your next piece of art looks like. This group Mastermind is your quantum leap art room.
2) Transformation Based Coaching. Up until this point, you’ve been obsessed with mimicking, trying on, & altering other people’s strategies for success and it’s gotten you wonderful things. But you’re sitting here now knowing that you’ve only just scratched the surface of your potential - there’s more & better available to you. The problem?
No one else has done what you want to do. There’s no roadmap that you can mimic, try on or alter. You can’t afford to keep squeezing yourself into misaligned programs & masterminds. It’s time to lock arms with someone who has succeeded at this level of entrepreneurial & creative uncertainty (with hundreds of thousands of dollars on the line & thousands upon thousands of people watching), who can tease magic out of you while removing all the unnecessary bullshit that gets in the way.
3) Co-Creation & Collaboration. For your whole entire life, you’ve carried the burden of having to figure everything out on your own out of fear of being punished, fear of being misunderstood, fear of being abandoned…but you don’t want to do that anymore. You realize that building a legacy while holding a deep fear of being seen is the reason it feels so hard to be a work in progress AND be wildly successful at the same time.
Every person in this space is here for the person next to them as much as they’re here for themselves. I build BFFL communities - people whos exchanges are equal & opposite; who love each other deeply, become each other’s clients, business partners, and best friend. There is nothing more supportive & intoxicating than the ripple of energy that dances up your spine when you + 8 other extraordinary people’s hearts & brains plug into each other. Art is made, limitations are demolished, energy is refurbished.
This is the BFFL’s Mastermind. And if you don’t want to be in a space where you are a TEAM, be deeply seen without judgement, helped without punishment, called out on the excuses & limitations that have gotten you here with fire & love & unconditional support…then this is NOT the space for you.
WALKING CONTRADICTION, COFFEE FANATIC & SOON-TO-BE SHOP OWNER, PROFESSIONAL HOMEBODY, PRESENT WIFE, BUSINESS OBSESSIVE, ENERGY QUEEN, YOUR GREATEST CHALLENGE.
Hi there! I’m Hayden.
I tease magic out of remarkable people. & if you’ve made it this far, then I'm honored that you're here because it's the perfect time to tell you that there's more inside of you.
You've felt alone most of your life. Not because you don't have people who love & support you deeply, but because not all of them understand you. You have this way of responding to & creating life that the majority of the population can't even begin to comprehend, let alone hold.
Maybe you've been told that you're delusional, that you're crazy, or that you can't have it all. You've been told that you're too much, too picky, too sensitive, or too intense. You've felt lost at sea with a deep love of working-your-ass-off, but also know there’s a deep itch that you haven’t been able to scratch. How do I combine it all without losing my mind? How do I create safety when I’m constantly jumping into the magical unknown?
Deep down you know that you're not too much, too picky, too intense, too delusional or too crazy. You get to have your cake and eat it too - for no other reason that the fact that you decided that's what you were available for & you'll settle for nothing less. But it still feels like things are happening slowly. Am I doing enough? Thinking big enough? Trusting myself enough?
Very rarely are you met & challenged in your crazy, so you carry the burden of building an extraordinary life on your own. And that's usually all fine & dandy except when you feel yourself at an intense crossroads.
Do I stay where it's good, warm & safe but starting to feel a tinge dissatisfying? Or do I take a risk and see how great it can be? Do I do this alone…again?
You live to stretch & grow. To experience what you're made of. Strategies, templates, & tenacity have gotten you here, but it suddenly feels like there isn't a strategy or template for achieving what you can barely articulate. And that's because there isn't. You're here to build a version of success that hasn't been experience by you OR anyone else on the planet. You're officially out of strategies and are officially in the era of becoming bigger than the strategy.
Why I might be the coach for you…
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You don’t just want more. You want to work better, look better, feel better. A few of your life values include having fun, laughing your ass off, & working alongside people who blow your mind and make your job fun as f*ck.
We are obsessed with getting rid of what breaks down those values, experiences, creativity, self-concepts, manifestations, sales, business designs, art and more.
Everything matters.
& everything is so much more fun because of it.
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I have performed athletically on some of the biggest amateur stages. I believe that creative entrepreneurs are the most successful athletes in the world.
& so I treat you like the athlete that you are.
That includes being held to the standards you’ve set for yourself & being extraordinary (doing every single time what ordinary people only do sometimes).
You will never have to question if this space is safe for you or if there is anyone more down bad for your success than I am.
You leave my containers being the person that the rest of the world is bending over backwards trying to keep up/ compete with.
The best part? It’s easy for you. Because no one can compete with who you are at your best.
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I’m not a professional EMT. I am not here to fix you. I am not a one-night-stand for your emotional needs.
I’m here to do life, laugh so fucking hard, & have so much fun with you.
I care about your life outside of your immediate business or how much money you made this month.
I care about your kids t-ball game. I care about all those things where you tell the rest of the world, “I know it’s stupid but...”
I care if you’re frustrated by something I said.
I’m not here for people who just want someone to tell them what to do & then move on.
I’m only here for the people who want bigger than life experiences because they allow themselves to be seen in bigger than life relationships.
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You’ve been in masterminds & group programs in the past where you felt invisible unless you were celebrating new income leaps every single week.
You felt like you couldn’t celebrate or ask for support inside of the container that you paid a boatload of money to be inside unless you earned it through money.
How unfair.
Money is always the last win in my world. We don’t celebrate making the money, we celebrate how we created it - who we had to be, what we overcame, how the process felt.
We celebrate overcoming personal limitations that have controlled our lives for decades.
I am not the coach for you if all you want is to make big money & be in a space where you’re only celebrated for making big money.
I’m am, however, the coach for you if you’re finally at a place to let your worth be defined by something other than how much money you can make or how well you can “figure things out on your own”.
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There’s a taut string that connects you to the beautiful places you’re going.
I believe that you spent 90% of your life on that tight-roping journey. The only way to milk the juice out of life is to learn how to laugh more, make more, create better & feel better while tight-roping the scariest track you’ve ever walked.
I work with the happiest, most remarkable people in the world because this is one of their core values.
If you don’t want to hold creative tension, savor life, & do hard shit at the same time…we are not a good match.
The Vibe & Details:
Spots: 8 available
Start Date: February 3, 2025
Early enrollment: November 8-December 31, 2024
Early enrollment price: $1497 x 6 OR a pay in full bonus of $8k (jumps to $1997/mo & no PIF bonus come January 1st)
Early enrollment BONUS: When you enroll before January 1, 2025, you will get a FREE 1:1 coaching call every month prior to the container opening to make massive leaps and bounds by the time we kick off. If you secure your spot today, you could have 4 private coaching calls ($2,000 value) and be on your next level by the time we start work together as a team in February
Mastermind Details: 3 group coaching calls/mo; M/T/Th/F Whatsapp message support with the most electric team on the planet, 3 month private coaching call check-in; Access to anything and everything in my world that I’ve ever created, will create & can support you
What makes EXTRA different
than other Masterminds?
2 things.
You can’t hide here. & it’s not all about you.
Chances are you’ve stuffed yourself into a few misaligned group programs & masterminds in the past. You paid a boatload of money to hide behind other people’s wins, feel wildly insignificant & “figure things out on your own”.
When you’re on the cusp of a massive breakthrough, 2 things tend to happen:
The world shrinks & becomes all about you - your fears, what’ll happen if you fail, what you have to lose, what other people/the Universe needs to do for you. You know how it goes.
You contract, retreat, condense, conserve & go into hermit mode - you’ve conditioned yourself to figure things out all on your own because you don’t believe that you can be a work in progress & be wildly successful at the same time.
But that’s not how creative tension works.
When you don’t have conscious access - in this moment - to all the things, partners, opportunities, ideas, answers, strengths, healing, transformations, happiness, & courage that you need to make the leap from good to great…that means those things still have to come to you.
& they can only come to you via creative collaboration & teamwork.
Hiding when things got hard has always gotten you good results. Choosing to be seen is going to get you great results.
This Mastermind isn’t just about you. It’s about you AND the person next to you.
It’s about having an advisory counsel of batsh*t crazy winners who absolutely don’t see your limitations & will hold you at your highest potential until you reach it. It’s about having partnerships that let you borrow their energy when yours dips. It’s about creative exchange that opens up the world again so that you can carve your You-Shaped Canyon right in the center of it. It’s about deeply stacked celebration. It’s about bottomless fuel and coaching calls that you actually want to get on.
It’s about being apart of something bigger because you’re so tired of doing hard sh*t all by yourself.
It’s about laughing harder, loving deeper, & working better than you’ve ever been able to before.
You will spend 90% of your life in this creative tension. The “more & better” that you’re looking for isn’t in the 10% you spend enjoying the fruits of your labor. The more & better you’re looking for is in the 90% of your life that you spend in creative tension.
This space is not for everyone. I will not convince you to be here & also won’t allow you to be here if you’re not ready.
Your Quantum Leaping A-Team
You’re a winner. You’ve spent your entire life defying the laws of your come-up & shape-shifting your way into exactly who you need to be to experience everything you want.
You’re one of the 4 types of people that I work with:
1) You’ve reached the top of one of your big ass goals (potentially the one you thought might take you a lifetime), and even though you’ve achieved more than anyone expected, you’re nowhere near done with experiencing your own magic yet . You’re gearing up for another new level & you’re slightly scared of what that might mean.
2) You’re surfing the waves of a huge transition & your knees are starting to get tired. Being stuck in the middle & carrying the load all by yourself is draining (let’s be honest, even if you have an incredible life partner, not everyone understands you, how you think, and what you want…sometimes you feel like you’re on an island all by yourself)
3) You’ve decided that you’re so unbelievably close to being at the top of your game, but it seems that you always get to 80% before having a setback. You’re determined as hell to close that last little gap in the most delicious way possible
4) You don’t want to travel the creative unknown alone…again. Because you have more on the line this time around than you’ve ever had before
My zone of genius is seeing you at your absolute highest potential & holding you to that while cutting through the bullshit.
My energy & expertise + your commitment to greatness = remarkable, exceptional, frivolous, magical experiences
I am here to help you replicate your genius across decades, industries, projects, business designs, income levels & relationships.
You want the best in every single way, and you know that people who perform at the highest level of anything require coaches to support their performance.
You’re curious. You know you’re special and have something more packaged away inside of you that industries, social climates, or turns of a season can’t take from you. You know you have a whole nother gear to kick into, but no one else has ever been able to get you into that gear until now.
You’re willing to go to the moon and back to put yourself in the right places, to get the experience you’re here to have in this one, short life. Your relentless pursuit of experiences that taste like a warm, nutella churro is both magnetic and freaky, sometimes seen as frivolous or excessive to others in your world - but to you, it’s your whole entire heartbeat. After all, “fun” is one of your top 5 life values.
You’re not here with the sole intention to retire your family with millions as quickly as possible, but rather to give your kin something that money can’t buy (nor were your ancestors able to give you): experiencing everything you’ve ever wanted, kicking your life into new gears while everyone idles in old ones, getting what you want in the face of seemingly endless heartbreak, loving hard without hiding, finding what makes you special and living by it till your last breath, quadrupling your income by doing better work, falling in love with people who tease out your greatness (as you do to them).
I’m going to be straight up with you.
You’re bored because you’re doing what’s reasonable - what’s predictable - and for the average person, that’s enough. But for you? Doing what’s reasonable and predictable only requires 60% of your brilliance - leaving 40% to be desired and dreamt about.
I will show you how to own every single intoxicating part of yourself so powerfully that the world feels just as at home inside of you…as you will come to.
My job as a creative partner & coach is to slow you down. Don’t get that twisted - slowing down doesn’t mean to “get less”. To slow down is to help you see what works, what doesn’t, what you’ve never been able to articulate or replicate & then spend the most amount of your waking moments in that greatness.
When you know that you’re ready to work with us, it will feel delicious and undeniable. Like a juicy secret that only you know…
It’ll taste like the first bite of a warm donut - melt in your mouth, doughy, & totally it for you in this moment. Your knowing will be visceral, audible, and absolutely unignorable. So with that said, this application is for sincere, empowered, & appropriate clients only. If you are coach hopping, taste-testing your options or are unsure if I’m the coach for you, please see your other options through. I’ll be here for you when the time is right. ❤️
But when you KNOW you’re ready, I’d love to invite you to fill out the application below. Once you’ve completed the application, I’ll slide into your email (prolly with the same face & excitement I have in the picture above!!). This space replaces a sales call, so this will be where I can answer all your burning questions about Extra. Please only continue to the application if you are ready for this commitment. Love ya - can’t wait to meet you inside.
If you know you are not ready, but you’d like to stay in touch with me, great! This is where to do that.